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Postby Tanner » 2009.03.02 (23:18)

It's come to my attention that I may in the wrong when it comes to my previous post. While I'm inclined to stick my guns on this particular instance, I'm happy to oblige the rest of this community and take a look at SkyPanda's post because I'm just the bigger dude like that. Oh, and Dave, I miss you too, man. Come on back whenever you're ready.
SkyPanda wrote:Of course, when you say that law enforcement will "will handle the situation", you mean that they will escort him to his place of residence so that he can commit suicide without disturbing anybody else, right?
Wrong, actually. Police are specifically trained to handle suicide cases as well.
http://www.aic.gov.au/publications/proceedings/13/kelly.pdf wrote:Traditionally, the police role has been seen by the community and by police themselves as
primarily concerned with law enforcement, that is, crime prevention, protection of life and
property, investigation of offences and the apprehension of offenders. However, in recent
years, the police have become more sensitive to a broad range of community social
problems and the needs of victims of society, for example cases of domestic violence, child
abuse, drug addiction and psychiatric disorders. An awareness of their community service
role, as opposed to the law enforcement role, has created adjustment problems for some
operational police officers.
I would encourage you to read that entire paper because it details some of the additional problems that police men face because of this grey social issue.
In order to prevent a debate on euthanasia, I’m going to start by saying that everything below does not refer to suicides for reasons of unbearable physical pain or similar. In this post, I talk only about self-harm/suicide for psychological reasons.
Now, this I find interesting. Does physical pain excuse suicide? Could you explain this?
Now firstly, if the person is a child, then stopping them from committing suicide should not be a controversial action. Even if suicide was accepted practice among adults, children would certainly be deemed not sufficiently mature to make a decision like that, in the same way that they are currently considered legally not mature enough to drink alcohol, or drive a car. I believe that the minimum necessary force, whatever that may be, would be acceptable to prevent them from harming themselves. To not use force would be to allow the illegal action. It's no good having a system based on "oh well, if I can't talk you out of it, go ahead and commit murder, go ahead and steal that jewellery”. I believe that any bystander should be legally permitted to themselves forcibly prevent a child from self-harming or suiciding, because it is a matter of life and death and relevant authorities may not arrive in time.

If the person is an adult, but is intoxicated or otherwise temporarily inhibited, then it is not unreasonable to intervene and prevent them from harming themselves. This opinion is based on my personal knowledge of the sort of things that intoxicated people try to do, and how likely they are to retrospectively appreciate interference once they are no longer intoxicated. Again, reasonable force is not immoral, nor illegal, nor should it be. It may be a matter of life and death, and the relevant authorities may not arrive in time.

If the person is an adult, and is not intoxicated/inhibited, then it becomes more tricky. Here is an excerpt from the esteemed academic source, wikipedia:
“The predominant view of modern medicine is that suicide is a mental health concern, associated with psychological factors such as the difficulty of coping with depression, inescapable suffering or fear, or other mental disorders and pressures. Suicide is sometimes interpreted as a "cry for help" and attention, or to express despair and the wish to escape, rather than a genuine intent to die.”
I agree with this statement, and I believe it has several implications. Although death is permanent, the reasons for the decision to self-harm or end your life are usually not. If a person is harming themselves or attempting suicide as a ‘cry for help’, then to not intervene is to ignore their plight. For those who are thinking “well why not just try and talk them out of it?”, yes, talking, paying attention, that may indeed be all it takes.
This is, if you're interested, the point at which I decided that your post was just flamebait. The reason being because, up until this point, only one person had even mentioned suicide (and bobaga_fett graced us with such a whirlwind tour that I wonder if we can ever count his contribution). I have not been talking about suicide. I have been talking about making changes to one's body that you, SkyPanda, view as harmful. Whether this involves cutting oneself open, sticking things in one's ass, getting a lot of tattoos or just getting one's ears pierced, makes no difference. These are changes that can cause not a small amount of damage but are non-lethal. This is what the people on this particular site describe doing and this is what we're talking about.
SkyPanda wrote:I realise this has moved on somewhat from self-harm and the vampyre folk, but it’s similar- many of the people posting on that site were showing signs of depression and mental conditions, a fair few of them sounded autistic.
I don't know if you've ever been a teenager but high school largely hinges around depression and a crippling self-loathing. Not to mention the fact that half of everyone who uses the internet claims to have Asperger's syndrome. The point that I'm trying to make here is that friggin' everyone's a suicide risk at some point in their life according to your broad definition and that there are still going to be some people who don't exhibit any noticeable traits and end up killing themselves. I appreciate that you "gotta catch 'em all" but it's just not feasible, practical or possible. Also, it's not what were talking about here.
Based on all my above arguments, I am of the opinion that all governments should, if they don't already:

1. Legislate for legal suicide prevention
(Essentially, so that people who take reasonable action to prevent a suicide are not be charged with deprivation of liberty or similar)

2. Legislate for mandatory psychological and medical assessment for people after a failed suicide (note: this is not for euthanasia)
I don’t think this should involve locking people away. However, if the person is sufficiently delusional or mentally damaged to warrant them being considered a danger to others, then it is not immoral for them to be committed just as any other person with a mental condition would be.

3. Develop suicide/self-harm education programs

This post is already bloated enough so I’ll stop here, but there’s still a fair bit to say about the website in question and what should and shouldn’t be done about things like that, I can post more on that if the discussion goes that way.
I have no problem with this. It's just (what?) not what we're talking about.
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DemonzLunchBreak wrote:SkyPanda: Your style of argument is very strange. Tanner made a perfectly valid point when he said that you argued in one thread that implied meanings should never be understood and words should be perfectly exact in their meanings, while you argued in this thread that you had an implied meaning that other people should have understood. You are not following your own principles of communication. Either your behaviour needs to change or your principles need to change, but right now they're contradictory. Your entire refutation was "both situations have to do with words." This is indicates that you either don't understand Tanner's point or you're too intellectually lazy to defend your own actions. I don't mean to be too harsh here, but I'd like to see you refute people more comprehensively and logically than you have been doing in this forum.
To quote Role Models, "You can't bullshit a bullshitter." Messing around with definitions like you do used to be how I argued. It's a childish waste of time, and it's something that I think you should be able to overcome. Instead of playing semantic games, try to address what people mean in their posts.
I’m getting a bit annoyed with the critiquing of my posts, so I’m going to tear into this ridiculous post of yours Demonz, even though it isn’t relevant. Sorry if I cause damage to the scroll wheel on anyone’s mouse.

You’re incorrect or confused with everything single thing you’ve said. Let’s recap.
Tanner: “Are you not the same person who argued so fervently for a change in vocabulary so as to avoid unnecessary connotations in the "'black' and 'white'" thread? And now you're coming in here and flip-flopping on your own choice in verbage; being all "I said 'liberal' but I meant 'cultural liberal' and ya'll shoulda got that from my intonation"?”
Me: “Seriously though, just because I believe that a commonly used term is inappropriate, does not mean that every time I use an obscure definition of a different and unrelated word, that i'm a raging hypocrite. In fact, the only link between the two is that they both involve words. A lot of things involve words.”

Firstly, for the record, I wasn’t actually using an obscure definition of a word after all. Tsukatu mislead me. I was correct in my initial belief that most forms of liberalism place importance on personal freedoms. From wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liberalism)- ” Liberalism emphasizes individual rights and equality of opportunity.” Furthermore, discussion about meanings and definitions are common in any debate, as you should know. See my reply to scythe. Feel free to retract your statement that I was “playing semantic games”, Demonz.

Secondly, you are completely incorrect about my “entire refutation”. If you had paid any attention, you would have noticed that my “entire refutation” was actually that there is no link between a debate about the appropriateness of a racial term and an argument about the definition of ‘liberal’. This is a reasonable and logical refutation. Tanner provided no link. I demanded one. Unless he can provide a reasonable justification for his accusation, then my refutation is perfectly fine.

Lastly, and most importantly, Tanner’s post and my reply was all side-banter anyway! My hypocrisy, or lack of, has no relevancy to the main debate. I don’t see why you felt the need to defend a jibe of Tanner’s that was between him and me. Ultimately, all he said was “you had a different opinion in that other debate”, which as you should know, is not an argument, because although double-standards apply in the real world, in an artificial online debate like this one, I can change my opinion between debates as often as I want.
Heck, you said it yourself, in the guidelines:
Demonz: “Similarly, debaters should address the argument presented, and not the person who is the source of the argument.”
No doubt Tanner knows this, but you seem to have forgotten. All your babbling was based on the assumption that tanner was making an argument against my viewpoint, which he wasn’t. Therefore your entire post is incorrect, confused and pointless.

Feel free to retract your whole post.
"Nice try, but no points for this one." You left that out of your recap. Just thought I'd help you out with that because I want you to know that I know that you know that you're behaving in a manner more akin to politics than intellectual debate. Politics has, as you may know, cared a great deal about the uprightness of its patrons. So don't suddenly act as though you're the voice of unfeeling logic in this debate because you're as bad as anyone. This isn't something I particularly have a problem with because that's how I debate as well but don't you dare cry foul on anyone else for something that you do right in the fucking quote.

Another thing is that, SkyPanda, you have, whether you like it or not, made this debate as much about yourself as you have about the issue you're trying to raise. When discussing morality and things like "compassion," personal character comes into play. It's the nature of the business. It shouldn't normally but here, right now, it does. So your hypocrisy and inability maintain your own jargon, while not important to the principle, makes me question the principle's advocate's ability to carry his own flag. Still, this has more to do with the 'black' and 'white' thread than this one. But hey, while I've got the podium, that stuff in the 'black' and 'white' thread you said? That was whack, man.
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scythe33 wrote:Your last few posts conflated words and nitpicked "duty" vs. "compassion".
Just trying to make sure that there's no confusion about my opinions, and about the definitions of words being used. This is not a big deal. There’s really no good reason for you to complain about it or make it out to be a bad thing.
“Duty” and “compassion” are entirely different, by the way. One implies an obligation to an external authority. The other implies a moral motivation, or obligation to self.
If you’re going to make an attack like this, you need to show which words I’ve conflated, and explain why you think duty and compassion are the same thing. Good luck with that.

Guys, please stop claiming that arguing about definitions and meaning is bad debating! Yes, it is possible for a person to manipulate semantics to confuse the argument or to divert attention away from weak arguments. I’m sure that happens often. However, it’s also important to ensure that everybody is using the same definitions, that posts are understood and interpreted correctly. This should be obvious.

If you feel I’ve manipulated definitions inappropriately, you need to justify that accusation. Merely arguing about definitions is not a bad thing in itself.
Why would scythe33 do that after you so quickly brushed me off when I did the same thing? This is section is completely at odds with the last.
SkyPanda wrote:
scythe33 wrote:...see what you (and I) did? That was a pretty poorly veiled personal attack
I was pointing out that SlappyMcGee didn't address my post, other than rephrasing it without adding anything. The only thing I did that was wrong was to call him shallow. Yes, I phrased that extremely poorly- I don't think he as a person is shallow! Just his arguments. Thanks for pulling me up on that one, you help me improve.
Man, whatever. What a calculated way to end your gigantic self-indulgent wankfest. Do your piece and rebuke me for this post, I'll read your reply and then I'm done with this thread. Make it a good one, yeah?
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Postby SlappyMcGee » 2009.03.03 (02:27)

I liked the way he didn`t call me shallow at the end. It absolved everything he said previously.

Anyways, SkyPanda, please move your response to Private Message or something. This has wheeled so far off from vampkids that I'm starting to wonder whther either of you actually want to be right.
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Postby Seneschal » 2009.04.02 (12:02)

Bringing this "debate" back to its original subject matter...
Yes it's pathetic. And disturbing, for that matter.
These people need not only psychological help but also educational help too; they're clearly either not very clever or mentally ill.

So I pity them.

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Postby Snuggletummy » 2009.04.02 (17:49)

Why is it a bad thing? They can think whatever the hell they want to think. So what if they think they're vampires, it's not like it has any effect on your life. Also no, I'm not saying I think this, but you all are really making yourselves look like jackasses. Why? Because you're calling people pathetic for thinking differently. And yes, this does piss me off, most of my life I've been teased, scorned, shit like that because I think differently. Yeah... It's silly.
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Postby Seneschal » 2009.04.02 (18:00)

Snuggletummy wrote:Why is it a bad thing? They can think whatever the hell they want to think. So what if they think they're vampires, it's not like it has any effect on your life. Also no, I'm not saying I think this, but you all are really making yourselves look like jackasses. Why? Because you're calling people pathetic for thinking differently. And yes, this does piss me off, most of my life I've been teased, scorned, shit like that because I think differently. Yeah... It's silly.
Nobody's saying that you don't have the right to freedom of speech/thought/etc...but no-one should have the right to infringe upon the rights of others.
I have a problem with getting blood. I had a friend that would donate to me, but she has moved across the country, and only a couple other people know what I am... But they aren't willing to donate
QFE.
This actually makes me physically sick.

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Postby deltainferno » 2009.04.02 (18:05)

Let me ask you this Cheesemonger, What would you do if vampires were suddenly proven to be real? how shattered would all of your views become?
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Postby kai » 2009.04.02 (18:11)

If a guy stands in the middle of the street, brandishes a knife and declares that he's tired of life, i'll confiscate the knife and forcibly nudge him in the direction of the nearest mental health clinic.
And ruin the show? Awwwwww.

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Postby Seneschal » 2009.04.02 (18:49)

deltainferno wrote:Let me ask you this Cheesemonger, What would you do if vampires were suddenly proven to be real? how shattered would all of your views become?
I'd do my best to try and accept this, but the simple fact is that it won't happen.

It's like saying, hey, what would you do if murder became morally acceptable and justifiable?
I'd try not to offend anyone. And I'd become a recluse from society.
But it won't happen.

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Postby Tunco » 2009.04.02 (18:57)

capt_weasle wrote:http://sanguinarius.org/problems-01.shtml

These people think they are vampires. Quotes from the actual site:

"I am 13 and I'm pretty sure I'm awakening. This kinda sucks at my age because it's summer. Long days, hot sun, it sucks! Well, what really sucks about it is that the only way I could get blood would be to cut myself which I'm not too keen on doing."

"I've read alot of the problems on this site, but I'm disheartened to not see someone like me. Most of my problems stem from the fact that I seem to be a hybrid. I suffer under the sun, and burn very badly, and am paler then the normal"

Gee, maybe you just have a pale complexion and happen to burn easily! What is it with people "believing" they are vampires? Someone needs to stay away from the Twilight books....
Twilight Books?Oh,lots of people reading around me and I get really annoyed from Twilight books.
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Postby t̷s͢uk̕a͡t͜ư » 2009.04.03 (02:10)

Snuggletummy wrote:Why is it a bad thing? They can think whatever the hell they want to think. So what if they think they're vampires, it's not like it has any effect on your life. Also no, I'm not saying I think this, but you all are really making yourselves look like jackasses. Why? Because you're calling people pathetic for thinking differently. And yes, this does piss me off, most of my life I've been teased, scorned, shit like that because I think differently. Yeah... It's silly.
Well, there's a few points I want to make here, half of which address each other. I'm schizophrenic like that, so bear with me. :p
1) This is a point I've made in SD / Debate threads in the past: You can respect the fact that people can think differently because that's one of the signs of an independent thinker, and that's potentially awesome. But you should not unconditionally respect the opinions they actually have. Those should be evaluated. So if I were to say "all women should be killed," then it's awesome that I have my own unconventional opinion but at the same time I should get the condemnation of any reasonable person who hears me because the opinion itself is horrendous. And as it applies to this thread, I'm not in the "these people are pathetic" camp because they think differently (hell, I think differently, and lots of people think I'm crazy for it); I think they're pathetic because of the specific different things they think.
2) Just as it's their right to talk about things we disagree with, or even things that we find very disturbing, it's our right to call them pathetic. We can tease and scorn all we damned well please, just as many of them likely do about us unenlightened mortals. And while I wouldn't normally make fun of someone for some slight eccentricity, someone sincerely believing that he's a vampire just takes the fuggin' cake. If you've read my explanation of my brother's "everyone gets one weird thing" philosophy, shit like "I'm a vampire" is at the very least the equivalent of two weird things.
3) All we're doing is talking shit about them. I'm not going to harass any of them, and I probably won't troll any of them. I definitely won't stalk any of them or hurt them. I'll laugh at anyone I think is a moron, but the moment someone else takes it beyond free speech, I'll go out of my way and fight to keep the moron safe. But in this thread, we're just talking, and not even to them.
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Postby Atilla » 2009.04.03 (02:39)

cheesemonger wrote:Nobody's saying that you don't have the right to freedom of speech/thought/etc...but no-one should have the right to infringe upon the rights of others.
I have a problem with getting blood. I had a friend that would donate to me, but she has moved across the country, and only a couple other people know what I am... But they aren't willing to donate
QFE.
This actually makes me physically sick.
If the blood is provided voluntarily, how is that infringing anyone's rights?

Also, lots of things make people physically sick, but it doesn't necessarily mean they're wrong or immoral.

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Postby SlappyMcGee » 2009.04.03 (03:15)

Squick: Possibly a contraction of "squeamish" and "Ick!" A negative emotional response, more specifically a disturbed or disgusted one. As in: "The relationship between Cordelia and Connor in Angel Season Four gave me a case of the squicks."

Eugh! That totally gave me the squicks!
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Atilla wrote:
cheesemonger wrote:Nobody's saying that you don't have the right to freedom of speech/thought/etc...but no-one should have the right to infringe upon the rights of others.
I have a problem with getting blood. I had a friend that would donate to me, but she has moved across the country, and only a couple other people know what I am... But they aren't willing to donate
QFE.
This actually makes me physically sick.
If the blood is provided voluntarily, how is that infringing anyone's rights?

Also, lots of things make people physically sick, but it doesn't necessarily mean they're wrong or immoral.
Dude, seriously? He's convinced his friends to give him their fucking blood. That's disgusting.
And no one has mentioned morality -- these people have been called pathetic, stupid, and loserly, but you're the first to mention their moral values.
But even so, just because someone is moral does not mean they don't do disgusting things. Morality is just irrelevant; why did you even bring it up?
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Postby Seneschal » 2009.04.03 (09:20)

Atilla wrote:
cheesemonger wrote:Nobody's saying that you don't have the right to freedom of speech/thought/etc...but no-one should have the right to infringe upon the rights of others.
I have a problem with getting blood. I had a friend that would donate to me, but she has moved across the country, and only a couple other people know what I am... But they aren't willing to donate
QFE.
This actually makes me physically sick.
If the blood is provided voluntarily, how is that infringing anyone's rights?

Also, lots of things make people physically sick, but it doesn't necessarily mean they're wrong or immoral.
Question: If underage sex is consented to voluntarily, how is that infringing anyone's rights?

And I'm not sure whether you can classify what I meant as physically sick (i.e. feeling ill, blurred vision, violent shivering, vomiting) as a 'squick'. I would call it a fit, and this was one of the only 3 times I've had one.
To put it into context, the others were listening to an account of someone addicted to plastic surgery and watching a retelling of Nero kicking his wife to death. Both were very graphic.

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Postby Atilla » 2009.04.03 (11:26)

Tsukatu wrote:Dude, seriously? He's convinced his friends to give him their fucking blood. That's disgusting.
And no one has mentioned morality -- these people have been called pathetic, stupid, and loserly, but you're the first to mention their moral values.
But even so, just because someone is moral does not mean they don't do disgusting things. Morality is just irrelevant; why did you even bring it up?
I agree that it's disgusting. There are a lot of things I find disgusting, however, and I don't think these things occurring between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home is necessarily "infringing on other people's rights".

Also, I believe reference to morality was implicit in the quoted statement about these people infringing others' rights. Perhaps you live in a world where infringing other people's rights is not regarded as immoral in any way. I think, however, that in mainstream usage, infringing people's rights is regarded as immoral or at least illegal. If cheesemonger had said "Drinking other people's blood is disgusting!" I wouldn't have had a problem. What I take issue with is that this is somehow infringing people's rights. Whose right to what is being infringed? That's the question I'm asking.
cheesemonger wrote:Question: If underage sex is consented to voluntarily, how is that infringing anyone's rights?
Underage sex is considered immoral/illegal because underage people cannot give the proper consent. It's certainly possible that the people involved here couldn't give proper consent, either. I don't know. All I'm going on here was the passage you quoted, which isn't sufficient to show that the consent was not valid.

I suppose one of my major problems with your post is that it sounds all too similar to another argument I've heard a lot, which is that gay sex is disgustin' and it should be illegal 'cos it infringes upon people's rights. Perhaps I've just spent too much time on TV Tropes.

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Postby Seneschal » 2009.04.03 (12:00)

Atilla wrote:
cheesemonger wrote:Question: If underage sex is consented to voluntarily, how is that infringing anyone's rights?
Underage sex is considered immoral/illegal because underage people cannot give the proper consent. It's certainly possible that the people involved here couldn't give proper consent, either. I don't know. All I'm going on here was the passage you quoted, which isn't sufficient to show that the consent was not valid.

I suppose one of my major problems with your post is that it sounds all too similar to another argument I've heard a lot, which is that gay sex is disgustin' and it should be illegal 'cos it infringes upon people's rights. Perhaps I've just spent too much time on TV Tropes.
I suppose this argument comes down to "What should be the legal minimum age for donating blood to feed someone's vampire fantasies?"
With sex, for both heterosexuals and homosexuals, it varies from country to country, but it's usually somewhere between 16 and 21.
Now I'm not going to argue that we should stop these people from indulging their vampiristic pursuits, but that, like sex, we should impose a minimum age for blood donations for these people, probably 18 or 21.
I will admit that this does bear resemblances to homosexuality in that many people, including myself, find it disgusting. I'm not anti-gay because I personally don't think it is disgusting and furthermore, as long as the participants have consented, it doesn't harm anyone. My initial gut reaction to this was one of disgust because vampirism goes against what it is to be human, and the blood donation could be harmful to the donator if not supervised correctly. Oh, and the person in the passage I quoted was 17, which under my regulations would be underage, but you didn't know that so fair enough.
So my conclusion is that as long as this donation process was properly supervised and the donater had consented and was at the legal age or above, then I would have no problems with it. I would still find it disgusting, but then who hasn't done anything disgusting in their lives?
In other words:
Atilla wrote:I agree that it's disgusting. There are a lot of things I find disgusting, however, and I don't think these things occurring between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home is necessarily "infringing on other people's rights".

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Postby SkyPanda » 2009.04.03 (12:58)

Atilla wrote:Also, I believe reference to morality was implicit in the quoted statement about these people infringing others' rights. Perhaps you live in a world where infringing other people's rights is not regarded as immoral in any way. I think, however, that in mainstream usage, infringing people's rights is regarded as immoral or at least illegal.
The word 'rights' in debate is usually used to refer to legal rights. The other type, moral/natural, is less commonly used and is rather contentious.

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Postby blue_tetris » 2009.04.03 (19:58)

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Tsukatu wrote:Dude, seriously? He's convinced his friends to give him their fucking blood. That's disgusting.
And no one has mentioned morality -- these people have been called pathetic, stupid, and loserly, but you're the first to mention their moral values.
But even so, just because someone is moral does not mean they don't do disgusting things. Morality is just irrelevant; why did you even bring it up?
I agree that it's disgusting. There are a lot of things I find disgusting, however, and I don't think these things occurring between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home is necessarily "infringing on other people's rights".
When did rights come into this? There are a lot of things you have the right to do which are just plain silly/bad for your health. You don't have to universally accept anything that you think people should be allowed to do. People have the right to make bad decisions, constantly.

These people might be making bad decisions.

Also, they seem a little absorbed in the fantasy of what they're doing. I question if they have it all together.

(I'm trying to read back to see when rights entered the convo, and I just can't track it. Why'd it get brought up?)
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Postby Atilla » 2009.04.04 (00:16)

blue_tetris wrote:When did rights come into this?

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(I'm trying to read back to see when rights entered the convo, and I just can't track it. Why'd it get brought up?)
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Snuggletummy wrote:Why is it a bad thing? They can think whatever the hell they want to think. So what if they think they're vampires, it's not like it has any effect on your life. Also no, I'm not saying I think this, but you all are really making yourselves look like jackasses. Why? Because you're calling people pathetic for thinking differently. And yes, this does piss me off, most of my life I've been teased, scorned, shit like that because I think differently. Yeah... It's silly.

Nobody's saying that you don't have the right to freedom of speech/thought/etc...but no-one should have the right to infringe upon the rights of others.

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Postby Seneschal » 2009.04.04 (09:21)

Atilla wrote:
blue_tetris wrote:When did rights come into this?

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(I'm trying to read back to see when rights entered the convo, and I just can't track it. Why'd it get brought up?)
cheesemonger wrote:
Snuggletummy wrote:Why is it a bad thing? They can think whatever the hell they want to think. So what if they think they're vampires, it's not like it has any effect on your life. Also no, I'm not saying I think this, but you all are really making yourselves look like jackasses. Why? Because you're calling people pathetic for thinking differently. And yes, this does piss me off, most of my life I've been teased, scorned, shit like that because I think differently. Yeah... It's silly.

Nobody's saying that you don't have the right to freedom of speech/thought/etc...but no-one should have the right to infringe upon the rights of others.
OK, my bad, but read this again:
Snuggletummy wrote:They can think whatever the hell they want to think.
He might not have mentioned it by name, but he is clearly talking about the right to freedom of speech, so I simply responded to that. But still, my fault for bringing rights to the forefront of the debate, so I'll happily shoulder most of the blame for that.

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Postby SlappyMcGee » 2009.04.04 (22:18)

Still, even then, doesn't your argument go against the side you're trying to debate for? People shouldn't have the right to infringe the rights of others, so let's fuck these VampKids up? See the irony?
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Postby jean-luc » 2009.04.06 (04:09)

cheesemonger wrote:
Atilla wrote:
cheesemonger wrote:Question: If underage sex is consented to voluntarily, how is that infringing anyone's rights?
Underage sex is considered immoral/illegal because underage people cannot give the proper consent. It's certainly possible that the people involved here couldn't give proper consent, either. I don't know. All I'm going on here was the passage you quoted, which isn't sufficient to show that the consent was not valid.

I suppose one of my major problems with your post is that it sounds all too similar to another argument I've heard a lot, which is that gay sex is disgustin' and it should be illegal 'cos it infringes upon people's rights. Perhaps I've just spent too much time on TV Tropes.
I suppose this argument comes down to "What should be the legal minimum age for donating blood to feed someone's vampire fantasies?"
With sex, for both heterosexuals and homosexuals, it varies from country to country, but it's usually somewhere between 16 and 21.
Now I'm not going to argue that we should stop these people from indulging their vampiristic pursuits, but that, like sex, we should impose a minimum age for blood donations for these people, probably 18 or 21.
I will admit that this does bear resemblances to homosexuality in that many people, including myself, find it disgusting. I'm not anti-gay because I personally don't think it is disgusting and furthermore, as long as the participants have consented, it doesn't harm anyone. My initial gut reaction to this was one of disgust because vampirism goes against what it is to be human, and the blood donation could be harmful to the donator if not supervised correctly. Oh, and the person in the passage I quoted was 17, which under my regulations would be underage, but you didn't know that so fair enough.
So my conclusion is that as long as this donation process was properly supervised and the donater had consented and was at the legal age or above, then I would have no problems with it. I would still find it disgusting, but then who hasn't done anything disgusting in their lives?
In other words:
Atilla wrote:I agree that it's disgusting. There are a lot of things I find disgusting, however, and I don't think these things occurring between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home is necessarily "infringing on other people's rights".
I would worry about the negative implications for the donor. Having a significant quantity of blood removed from you is not a trivial matter, and I think it shouldn't be done lightly. I see a substantial difference between donating blood to organizations like the Red Cross (as I do regularly) so that it can be distributed to those who have a medical need for it (often as a matter of life or death) and donating it to someone so that they can ingest it, at no advantage (in fact, considering blood-born diseases, at a likely disadvantage) to them. Of course, what exactly this distinction is is hard to pin down. This happens often when we really analyze matters of ethics and rights...

But, I suppose if the donor is consenting, it's not really an ethical issue. Despite this, it seems stupid. I mean, seriously, why?

I would think that the bulk of these people have a definite mental disorder, and need help.
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Postby t̷s͢uk̕a͡t͜ư » 2009.04.06 (22:18)

This is all minor stuff. I'm not really arguing so much as commenting...
jean-luc wrote:I would worry about the negative implications for the donor. Having a significant quantity of blood removed from you is not a trivial matter, and I think it shouldn't be done lightly.
Have you ever donated blood? Just about anyone wouldn't miss a pint of blood. Every time I've given blood, I've been just fine; I barely even felt light-headed, much less that I was ready to faint, and I don't have the healthiest of diets. Point being, recovery time is, like, a day (although the Red Cross does mandate a 56-day waiting period between donations), and you could make a pint last a while (crazy as they are, I can't imagine any of these freaks guzzling the stuff down; it seems more realistic to me to expect them to drink a cup at most every few days).
Then again, the additional risks for the donors include infection and injury from missing the vein too many times, as well as trips to the ER from the morons who decide their arteries will give faster and try to draw from them.
jean-luc wrote:But, I suppose if the donor is consenting, it's not really an ethical issue. Despite this, it seems stupid. I mean, seriously, why?
Full agreement here. Why also do people prefer to have sex in animal suits? People are frickin' weird.
But as I said, as long as everyone consents, the most I'll do is comment that they're being stupid.
jean-luc wrote:I would think that the bulk of these people have a definite mental disorder, and need help.
I don't think that's entirely fair, actually. Most people I meet (the more common of folk, anyway) have this thing where they have such a strong desire to make themselves stand out that they are totally willing to lie to themselves about who they are. It usually takes the form of exaggerated claims of their skills at tasks that they don't ever intend you to see them do or obvious embellishing of stories of their past. It happens with people who realize deep down that they're unremarkable, and it happens all the goddamn time.
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Postby jean-luc » 2009.04.10 (21:52)

Tsukatu wrote:
jean-luc wrote:I would think that the bulk of these people have a definite mental disorder, and need help.
I don't think that's entirely fair, actually. Most people I meet (the more common of folk, anyway) have this thing where they have such a strong desire to make themselves stand out that they are totally willing to lie to themselves about who they are. It usually takes the form of exaggerated claims of their skills at tasks that they don't ever intend you to see them do or obvious embellishing of stories of their past. It happens with people who realize deep down that they're unremarkable, and it happens all the goddamn time.
this seems really extreme, though. I'd say your far better off exaggerating your skills than declaring yourself a vampire.
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Postby Alex777 » 2009.04.27 (15:55)

Wow all they want is attention. And to think they are above humans, So that they think there life is more fun and less boring. Truly pathetic.
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