Twistkill wrote:Tsukatu, just out of curiosity, what do you think of me being a Christian? (although I really need to follow it more closely, that's unrelated here) Despite your obvious hatred of Christianity and its history, you've never really been hostile towards me about it. Or maybe this is because I really don't like debating religion and haven't really talked about it with you at length compared to some others.
What I'm not okay with is people
being Christian. As for the people themselves, I'm a very laidback sort of person and can make friends with just about anyone (although things get sticky if there is nothing more to someone than their religion *cough*acaddict). Anyone who respects my right to my own beliefs (or lackthereof) gets that same respect in kind; I don't start arguments out of the blue. If someone wants to talk or muse, I've been completely capable of keeping things completely civil and non-argumentative as well. I think a lot of what some of the members here think of me comes from how they see me act in Debate and thinking that that's what I'm like outside of that sort of context.
So really, dude, I have no problems with you at all. If your religion isn't interfering with my world (you're not threatening me, you don't move to the US and vote solely on religious beliefs, etc.), then the only think I think of you being a Christian is that I think it's unfortunate, because I sincerely believe that Christianity, like just about any religion, does more harm than good, and I don't like seeing people I get along with in that situation.
Ultimately, if your religion isn't affecting me, you can believe whatever you want. I'll comment on it if you ask me to, but I probably won't bring it up on my own. And for those people who really want a no-holds-barred hashing out of why I have the opinions I do, I can provide that also, because I know what I believe and why I believe it.
Twistkill wrote:But that's the conflict; because you've never experienced the Christian walk and dismiss the Bible as a bunch of fairy tales, you can't understand why we stand behind what we do.
Firstly, I was a Russian Orthodox Christian before I started the transition toward what I am now. And secondly, I hope to High goddamn Heaven that the Bible is indeed a farce, and that the world at large never subscribes its teachings. It is one evil fucking book.
Twistkill wrote:I'll admit, I really don't have an answer for you about the crusades and the witch burnings and the other acts of murder committed in God's name. I can tell you that they were being misled. And, despite some of them being clergymen and adamant church-goers, they were still human.
If the reasons for these things were the imperfections of humans, doesn't it make you wonder why the worst of evils is committed so much more regularly by religious people rallied by religious organizations under the banner of their religion? Or why even the ones that didn't have overtly religious reasons effectively set up their own pseudo-religions in which they were worshipped as a god would be (Mao being the prime example)?
Twistkill wrote:I'm still human. incluye, Obby, macaddict - humans. We aren't Jesus; we still succumb to sin. We're just trying to change our old path to became a new creation and strive to live that way.
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It's changed my life, how I view people (for the most part), and my general attitude.
As I said earlier, I just don't believe Christianity is the best way to do that. I know you're all human, and I'm a human too, with my own limitations and short-comings. But to me, Christianity is the crazy homeopathic remedy that just makes the wound worse, even if it does numb the pain. And now I'll have to ask you to endure a short rant explaining this...
My general view of life is very much like the scientific theory of entropy. The extremely abridged version: Compared to a human, the universe has a completely alien view of what is best; it will naturally move toward a state that is different from your best interests (not
always against your best interests, but usually so). To impose some order, you need to put in energy of your own. For this reason, you should only ever expect good results to come from the things you work at. If luck goes your way, fine, that can happen, but you should recognize that it was a fluke. The problem with this is that people don't like work, and they often jump at any easy way out. I'm not playing the blame game here -- I do this all the time, just as I expect of any normal person.
So the way I deal with my problems is by putting effort into fixing them. I used to be pretty out of shape (and still am, a bit), so I started eating healthy and working out. I needed a job in the field of my interest but my classes weren't teaching me useful skills, so I taught myself those skills instead of lounging around and playing video games all day like my dorm mates did. I didn't have many friends in my hometown when I came back from college, but even though I was uncomfortable doing it, I threw myself into a few social scenes. I made a lot of mistakes and gave some people a bad impression, but I did get some very close friends that I hang out with regularly today. It's all work, and most of it sucks, but it solves the problem.
A Christian believes that there is an omnipotent being who loves him and wants the best for him. You can really go one of a few ways: 1) you believe that your well-being is in God's hands, and because He loves you, He has already planned a life for you that despite some pitfalls eventually turns out just peachy-keen; 2) you believe that God will throw challenges at you that He expects you to overcome with effort, and possibly (*stifled laughter*) faith; 3) you have any belief whatsoever in the efficacy of prayer.
To start off, #3 doesn't go with either of the first two. If God already has a plan, there's no point in praying. Prayer is defined by The Devil's Dictionary as "asking that the laws of the universe be annulled on the behalf of a single petitioner who is confessedly unworthy." Praying for some change or some event to happen is to presume greater wisdom than God. Or if you're of the #2 camp, you're asking God for help in something He knows you can handle yourself; you're cheating, you're whining, and you're telling God that He was wrong about your capabilities. Besides which, prayer fills the part of our minds that gives us satisfaction in knowing we worked at a problem, which is a bad when you consider that prayer doesn't actually accomplish a damned thing. When you pray for the victims of a natural disaster, or for the poor to find food, you feel like you've actually done something and your desire to help is satisfied.
#1 gives you the belief that everything will be fine in the end despite the hardships that come. This takes away the drive to work for anything yourself, because you think it's in the hands of an all-powerful being who loves you. And when it's all over, all the Earthly knowledge and skills you'd have picked up from your own efforts are going to be meaningless in Heaven. Just go with the flow and go where God wills you to go. Most people I meet who believe this have minimum-wage jobs, struggle with alcoholism, and love smoking pot. I can only imagine they'll die without having accomplished anything, believing that they lived a meaningful life.
And lastly, #2 is barely different from the secular approach to life I live by, and God is such a small part of it that He can effectively be thrown out of the picture and you wouldn't lose anything. If you believe that God isn't going to bail you out and it's on you to make your life work, then clearly you shouldn't expect any interference in your life from God. Sometimes God will test your faith while things just don't go my way, and sometimes God will bless you while I have some good luck by some crazy random happenstance. We'll respond to the circumstances of life in the same way. So the question is, why is it at all meaningful that God is the one who put you into a world like this, where you have to work for your success? It's just so arbitrary and pointless. And besides that, it comes hand-in-hand with the Problem of Evil, Free Will, and other fun inconsistencies that I'm not going to get into right now.
Although if you actually want to get
accurate, then replace every instance of the word "Christianity" above with "epistemological hedonism." Besides coming with tales of magical talking snakes and some terrifying stories of people committing war crimes in the name of God, you also have orders to hate and kill an astoundingly large variety of people. I don't see the majority of Christians actually following any Christian doctrine (and thank God for that!). So if you're going to attribute a healthy, tolerant lifestyle to something supernatural, at the very least call it Deism or your own spirituality or
something, but not Christianity. You're not a Christian, because no one in their right mind could possibly be an
actual Christian. What we have instead is a rebranding of a New Age movement that idealizes some hippie named Jesus (but who clearly wasn't the Jesus of Nazareth of the New Testament; that dude was just as crazy as his alleged father). The word "Christian" has completely lost its original meaning, because this new Christianity has nothing in common with its roots, and is obviously not based in the slightest on the Bible.
...which, if I may say so, is a perfect segue into:
Twistkill wrote:Really, I just ask you to not judge us - the "modern" Christians, if you will - for some crazy garbage that happened erroneously in the past.
I obviously can't pin the same beliefs of Christianity on your Christianity v2.0, but the fact does remain that it's a religion, and it's the religious mindset that allows that "crazy garbage" to happen. You're a cool dude and all, but so long as you believe that it's okay to just believe things for no reason, I will be wary of your religious beliefs interfering negatively with my life. "Faith" is making a virtue out of not thinking, of, in fact, refusing to think, and that will never be something that sits well with me.
Twistkill wrote:In the end, does this affect our relationships with people? Okay, if a Christian girl wants to date an atheist and after a few months the boyfriend brings up sex as part of their conversations, there are going to be potholes. There will also be bumps with excessive swearing, pornography, and the usual list of suspects. But I'm not going to say no to a bunch of guys who want to grab some drinks and play pool on a Friday night because I could be exposed to their "atheist" lifestyles.
Good for you!
I really do mean that; it wasn't sarcasm. This is the sort of attitude I really wish more people would have -- your beliefs are something personal, and you're secure enough to be (or should I say not insecure enough to avoid) mingling with people of different beliefs without problems. Tolerance is progressive.
Like I said, if you and I were just hanging out, I really doubt that there would be any problems.