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Okay...so...my fiance is in Ohio for the rest of this year and all of '09...and it is really hard to hold up a relationship like this...i need some advice...dont care what it is...as long as its good and applies to the situation then post it.

Call her every night.
There's not much else you could do.

Both of you need a webcam.

@ TribulatioN: Already do that

@ Condog: Both of us have webcams and we use them daily

Well then it seems like you're doing everything you can. If not, then plan to visit her during Christmas or something of that sort.

unfortunately...i cannot visit her on christmas because it is imppossibly expensive...and our financial position isnt that great...but i will visit her in february thank god

Send her love emails from time to time.

You're 16. How is it you have a fiance?

Long distance relationships are about perseverance, trust, and a little luck. All you can do is let the thing take it's natural course.

Sucks to be you ;_;

Tsukatu wrote:You're 16. How is it you have a fiance?

Yeah.

I had a non-long-distance fiancee at age 26 and things fell through. Maybe I needed more time to mature.

Rikaninja wrote:There's not much I can add.
The only thing I can think of that is not already stated here is plain old cards.
yeh.

One of these days I'm going to go through your posts and tally up how many of them essentially say, "I have no reason to press the Post Reply button, but I'm doing it anyway."

Tsukatu wrote:

Rikaninja wrote:There's not much I can add.
The only thing I can think of that is not already stated here is plain old cards.
yeh.

One of these days I'm going to go through your posts and tally up how many of them essentially say, "I have no reason to press the Post Reply button, but I'm doing it anyway."

That could take a whle.

Tsukatu wrote:You're 16. How is it you have a fiance?

its very difficult to explain...

Maligus wrote:

Tsukatu wrote:You're 16. How is it you have a fiance?

its very difficult to explain...

You're 16. How could it possibly be difficult?

Maligus wrote:

Tsukatu wrote:You're 16. How is it you have a fiance?

its very difficult to explain...

We have time, you know. This is a forum, not a phone call.

scythe33 wrote:

Maligus wrote:

Tsukatu wrote:You're 16. How is it you have a fiance?

its very difficult to explain...

We have time, you know. This is a forum, not a phone call.

true...but its kind of hard to explain...and to grasp

You should at least try. We are, after all, exceptionally brilliant.

Lots of contact, lots of attention. Anything less would be uncivilized.

rennaT wrote:You should at least try. We are, after all, exceptionally brilliant.

that is true...but ill put it this way...the time in between the time that she was my girlfriend and my fiance was exceptionally short.

After a few hours of pondering, I think I managed to wrap my puny little brain around the idea that a 16-year old has imparted to us.
Here's a diagram for those still having trouble:


Please go on. "We took a brief break" only begins to explain "it's very difficult to explain."

Tsukatu wrote:After a few hours of pondering, I think I managed to wrap my puny little brain around the idea that a 16-year old has imparted to us.
Here's a diagram for those still having trouble:


Please go on. "We took a brief break" only begins to explain "it's very difficult to explain."

yes yes...very funny...what i meant was that the amount of time that she has been my girlfriend is shorter than the amount of time that she has been my fiance...

That still doesn't explain why you have a fiance at 16

Arranged marriage?

Did you knock her up?

My money's on Condog's guess.