Seneschal wrote:Have you ever heard the phrase “Love is blind”? There’s a reason that it exists. Love is something beyond our control. It isn’t voluntary. That’s one of the main features of love.
I agree there is a reason that love exists. What is that reason. What else could it possibly be except for happiness? Let me give you an example. You are going to go out with your friends tonight. (I don't know what you like, but imagine you all will be going to do your favorite thing.) What ever you are going to do, it is going to be one of the most fun nights of your life, but you Mom gets sick and she needs you to be by her side. You are going to stay with your Mom, and help her. This act of love and sacrifice brings you more happiness than going to whatever you were going to with your friends. In this example, you
voluntarily decide to show/demonstrate your love instead of going to the fun thing. If you believe it or not, there is something going on in the subconsciousness that knows that you will be more happy showing your love for your mother. I am not saying that love is voluntary. I am saying that ACTS of love are voluntary. I can always explain the actions demonstrating my love. It is possible to consciously think that you are going to do something for happiness, you just have to except that happiness is the reason. You already except it for somethings, like video games. You can think, "I am going to play N because I am bored and N is fun, and when I am having fun I am happy." The same thing
can apply for more profound human actions. Usually, humans know it on a subconscious level only, but it is possible to know it on a conscious level as well.
Seneschal wrote:Happiness is a by-product of love. Happiness can be a by-product of believing in something.
I agree, because of this by-product humans love and believe. All humans, subconsciously or consciously or both, desire this by-product.
Seneschal wrote:You don’t fall in love because it makes you happy; similarly, you can’t believe in something just because you feel happy believing in it. People fall in love because of things beyond their control, e.g. another person’s personality, their character traits, their appearance, etc. Likewise, people believe in things because of their upbringing, because of their environment, because of evidence for that belief, etc.
Since you are using the example of loving another person let us stay with that example. The person that makes you the happiest will be the person you fall in love with. You said yourself that happiness is a by-product of love. So logically, the one you love the most will always be the one that makes you the happiest. The more love, the more by-product of happiness you will have. If their personality, traits, and appearance make you love her/him more than somebody else, you will be more happy loving him/her than the other person. Using the same logic as above, it is impossible to love somebody more than someone else without being happier loving that person you love more. The same thing applies for the beliefs. You can't believe in one thing more than another with out being happier believing in the thing you believe more.
Seneschal wrote:As I have tried to explain to you many times, the reason for believing has nothing to do with happiness. Happiness is something that may come with believing. If happiness were the sole reason for beliefs, then surely everyone would join any religion that promised them happiness? Most major religions promise some sort of paradise after death, and yet there are atheists in the world. Because happiness is not a motivator for belief.
The atheists don't believe in the paradise after death, they do not believe in the promises of happiness promised by the religions. They believe in scientific explanations more, which means that they will receive more by-product of happiness from the thing they believe in the most.
Seneschal wrote:Of course there are reasons for happiness. Happiness is a direct result of a pleasing stimulus, it isn’t random. However, not only are you saying that there can never be a reason for anyone feeling happy, you’re also saying that everything independent of human thought has no reason behind it.
You misunderstood me. The reason you would want to do something is for more good by-product than bad by-product. When there is more good by-product than bad by-product you are happy. The reason for happiness is happiness. There is nothing more basic than happiness.
Seneschal wrote:Aldaric wrote: So yes, believing in what you believe makes you happy until believing what you believe does not make you happy.
This sentence is mindboggling. Its obvious nature aside, belief doesn’t necessarily bring happiness. You seem to think that whatever people believe, they’ll be happy believing it, which just isn’t the case. Think Puritanism, for example, or Calvinism. People may have been indoctrinated into these faiths, but that doesn’t mean they’ll enjoy those beliefs, it just means that they’ll think that those beliefs are true. Because people only believe things when they think that those things are true. It is impossible to believe something just because you think it will make you happy, you have to believe that it is true as well.
Like I explained above, if you believe in something more than some other belief, you have to get more happiness from what you believe in more. You have to put yourself in the believer's shoes. If I believed that causing myself pain would make my God happy, I would make the sacrifice of hurting myself to please my God because in my opinion I would get/receive more good by-product than bad by-product from doing it, which would make me happy. Sacrifices are considered losses because they are not perfect, but when you choose to sacrifice something consciously or subconsciously you are aware that it will make you happier to do it. Like the taking care of the sick mom example. You sacrifice that fun night with your friends, but you gain demonstrating your love for your mother. If you actually knew subconsciously or consciously that helping your mother would not bring more happiness than the fun night out with friends, you would go with your friends. That sounds terrible to us, but in the opinion of the person who goes with his friends it is not. It is a matter of perspective.
Seneschal wrote:People do not change their beliefs because new beliefs would make them more happy. People change their beliefs because of evidence to the contrary, or because they discover a flaw in their beliefs, etc. Please get this idea out of your head.
We agree, you just don't realize it. People do change their beliefs because of evidence to the contrary or they have discovered a flaw in their original belief or for what ever reason they believe is a good reason to believe in the new believe more. When you change your belief, you believe in the new belief more, which will have that benefit of a larger by-product of happiness. Again because it is important, subconsciously or consciously it is happiness that makes a person change their belief because the reason for doing something is to get more good by-product than bad by-product. More good makes you happier.
Seneschal wrote:Also, you’re contradicting yourself:
You do not change it because it is not voluntary
but this is not even important if you still don't agree that it is voluntary.
You don’t seem to be able to decide yourself whether belief in voluntary of involuntary.
The first quote is a double negative. So it means I think it is voluntary. The second quote says YOU don't agree that it is voluntary. I am not contradicting myself.
Tunco wrote:You say that feeling or sense (which the feeling or sense here is becoming happy) could be realized or feeled or thought before the action (which the action here is eating the hamburger, whom you never do it), which is plain wrong.
First, most of the stuff you were saying should be answered by my response to Seneschal. Second, this is NOT-NOT-
---NOT--- what I am saying at all. I am saying that because you know that eating the hamburger will make you happy, you WILL eat it.
DemonzLunchBreak wrote:Aldaric, your insistence that all actions, beliefs, and emotions are conscious efforts to increase happiness flies in the face of any real-world experience and mountains of scientific research. It's just obvious that not all neurological processes are consciously controlled.
Not consciously controlled, but they can be consciously perceived. I am saying that you have no real control over the whole thing. I just think it is possible to understand why you do it. All these decisions to achieve the most happiness possible are uncontrollable natural human acts. If you want to or not, you are going to do things with the ultimate purpose of being happy. Even though, you don't have any control, it is still voluntary because you are doing it. It sounds like a contradiction but it is not. What I am trying to say is, actions that are forced by yourself are voluntary. When you want to do it, when you make yourself do it, it is voluntary. Something is only involuntarily when something else makes you do something. You are forcing yourself subconsciously to be the happiest that is possible.
DemonzLunchBreak wrote:People don't decide to fall in love, and if you'd ever been in love or even felt strong affection, you'd know this was the case. Love is a set of electrochemical interactions in your brain that the conscious "you" has no ability to control. People don't decide to dream, to have reflexes, or to breathe, either. If you were to study the adaptive unconscious, you'd be surprised how much decision making, learning, and observation can take place long before people realize that these events have occurred, let alone have rationalized them with goals like "happiness." I tend to think that you would have a very different perspective on this topic if you were to read a little bit about unconscious processes in the brain and/or live a few more years of your life.
I think that human actions always have reasons and you can always find the reasons, therefore they can always be rationalized. More over, I believe enough in my view to say that every reason can be further rationalized to one thing, happiness.
flagmyidol wrote:Most if not at all of our subconscious reactions are about survival, yes. And doesn't survival make us happy?
This is my point exactly. These reasons, these subconscious actions to survive, can be rationalized/explained by happiness. Any example of a human action you give can be explained by happiness.
Sorry if my post is huge, but I am trying to debate against a lot of people... so yeah sorry if my long posts piss you off.