How to treat an ugly person?

[ADMINISTRATOR]

First of all, my friend just showed me this video of a girl named Katie. She is a large girl that sings on Youtube. But before anyone replies watch her video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TV4bb1gcdBI

Ok, now don't get me wrong. I don't have anything against her. I just thought, what if I ran into her in real life. What could I say to her without feeling bad because I could:

1) Be truthful and tell her she is ugly since she's fat.
2) Be nice and tell her she is good at what she is doing, but then I'd be a jerk for being a liar.
3) Just not talk to her, but then I'd be a jerk again for ignoring her. (since I'm sure she is doing this type of thing for attention)

Any opinions?

[sheganican]

3-I could just watch and not comment, but then I'd be a jerk again for ignoring her.

um. what?

[Vyacheslav]

You wouldn't ignore her if you didn't comment. It's not like she personally asked you to watch her video. That being said, I posted this without clicking on the link.

[t̷s͢uk̕a͡t͜ư]

"This video is private."

[Donfuy]

Didn't show up for me.

EDIT: YEAH DIDN'T GIMME TO ME MEMEMEM

[a happy song]

Didn't give me that to me.

Gave me that twice tried, failed both though.

Yeh, what Tsuki said.

[ADMINISTRATOR]

Argh! Sorry about that everyone. The channel got hacked shortly after I posted. I uploaded a thumb clip from the actual video. Just imagine this large girl singing Miley Cyrus-Goodbye (She is 13 yrs)...Damn, it's not the same without the video. This is the best I can do for now.

Let me see if I can track down a new channel...

[Rhekatou]

In response, is she actually a good singer?

Better yet, why the hell is not commenting mean?

So you don't like her. Big deal. Is the world going to end, or is your girlfriend going to hate you?

It's fine if you don't. So what's the big deal?

[aids]

"Lose some weight and not even Simon Cowell will be able to make fun of you."

[Skyling]

Is this a serious thread, road_rage? You are making a thread called "How to treat an ugly person" and being serious about it? What the fuck is wrong with you?

[ADMINISTRATOR]

Ok, sorry about that guys. I just found a good link. Also, I rephrased my first post a little bit. Hopefully it makes more sense.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TV4bb1gcdBI

[乳头的早餐谷物]

"Just not talk to her, but then I'd be a jerk again for ignoring her. (since I'm sure she is doing this type of thing for attention)"

That's... what? Do you seriously believe that not commenting on an YouTube videos makes you a jerk, or is this thread just a disingenuous way of saying "hey, look at this ugly bitch"?

[aids]

Oh my sweet corn and mashed potatoes, you know this girl? I'd abandon any contact with her as soon as possible.

[yahoozy]

||:[D

[t̷s͢uk̕a͡t͜ư]

People have their mix of positive and negative qualities. As long as they are accepting of their faults and take any childish criticism in stride, I don't see wh-- OH GOD WHAT THE FUCK OH THE VIDEO LOADED KILL IT WITH A SHOVEL

I am not exaggerating when I say that left me winded. She is ridiculously, profoundly ugly. I think this may very well be the most hideous person I have ever seen, and this is coming from a person who has, in his past, actively sought out pictures of hideous people to add to a collection of the same. If I were alone with it in a room, I'd stay on the opposite side of the room and hit it if it came close.
I might've said something different if she actually had any singing talent, but she very doesn't. She sings about as well as any other random child with no formal training or talent, and the fact that she chose to sing a Miley Cyrus song leads me to enough assumptions about the sort of person she is and will probably be that I don't think it's a shot in the dark to say she's not going to have very many redeeming features. What we're looking at here is the factor that balances out all the supermodels in the world to set the average for attractiveness that most of us know in our day to day. This is the extreme left of the bell curve. I don't know who let it out of the basement and gave it a camera, but I suppose it's an important reminder of the horrors in the world that exist apart from television and other popular media.
If someone I knew was this ugly, I would take pains to distance myself from it. I wouldn't be up in its face about it, and I definitely wouldn't go out of my way to make its life less pleasant (it probably suffers enough of that already), but I'm sorry, I'm not a fucking charity.

And before you get on my back about judging people for something they have no control over -- I hold firmly the belief that people are only ugly by choice. Some people just aren't blessed with good looks, but that only makes them unremarkable, not ugly. Take a look at her face -- if she lost weight, tanned a bit (just something more than her current ghostly paleness), and... actually, she could probably keep her hair the way it is now, she might even be attractive. She'd probably have to go with a tomboyish look what with that upturned nose, but if you add a touch of dark/gothy makeup, she could even be on the cute side.
Matter of fact, her facial structure reminds me of a girl I know. A totally dispassionate look at her would show you that her head and face are actually more than a little deformed. Her forehead is, like, half of her head, her lower jaw is tiny, and her eyes are kinda bugged out, low on her face, and far apart. But she's fit and very athletic, and she knows how to style her hair and apply makeup, to the point that she's actually one of the more attractive people I know (in this small town, anyway). She gets looks from guys all the time. I've seen guys compete over her.

But this lagoon creature? I have no meaningful amount of sympathy. She did that to herself. She stuffed those ho-ho's in her face. She's the one refusing to put effort into her appearance. I don't respect people who don't respect themselves.

[a happy song]

How about we see a picture of the OP? I mean, just to be sure...

[999_Springs]

Just noticed:

The similarity is so uncanny...

[Vyacheslav]

Alright, now you guys are just being downright cruel.

[ADMINISTRATOR]

Oh my sweet corn and mashed potatoes, you know this girl? I'd abandon any contact with her as soon as possible.

No my friend showed me the video, but the reason I added this video is because this is how I even thought about this topic.

People have their mix of positive and negative qualities. As long as they are accepting of their faults and take any childish criticism in stride, I don't see wh-- OH GOD WHAT THE FUCK OH THE VIDEO LOADED KILL IT WITH A SHOVEL

Suki, LOL! I myself felt the same way at first, I saw the video and said mean things like: "Did anyone call the zoo? We need to let them know an elephant has escaped and has been found singing on Youtube". Then I thought what if it wasn't her fault. I mean there are other factors that might've caused her to be obese. (medical or genetic)

Do you seriously believe that not commenting on an YouTube videos makes you a jerk, or is this thread just a disingenuous way of saying "hey, look at this ugly bitch"?

No. Not on the site. I mean in real life. If you saw her sing in real life, what would you say to her? To re-rephrase:

1) A bad thing
2) A good thing
3) Nothing at all

All these options end up being a bad decision in my opinion. I wanted to see if anyone could come up with a good one. Hmm, or maybe I should've just made a poll :/

[Kablizzy]

Just noticed:

The similarity is so uncanny...

What the fuck are we, /b/ now? Get the fuck off my forum, trollshit.

[SlappyMcGee]

Is no 4chan stuff part of the rules? Everybody should know that memes in general are very much frowned upon here. Motivational posters, long cats, naked twelve year olds, keep them on other websites.

[Kablizzy]

Naw, not part of the rules, just calling out the fucktards as I see the fucktards, bro.

[SlappyMcGee]

Naw, not part of the rules, just calling out the fucktards as I see the fucktards, bro.

I think we oughta make it.

[Kablizzy]

Naw, not part of the rules, just calling out the fucktards as I see the fucktards, bro.

I think we oughta make it.

That one's your call now, Mr. Adminasaurus. ;)