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Postby SlappyMcGee » 2008.12.13 (14:08)

Maligus wrote:Okay...so...my fiance is in Ohio for the rest of this year and all of '09...and it is really hard to hold up a relationship like this...i need some advice...dont care what it is...as long as its good and applies to the situation then post it.

I don't know how difficult it can be to grasp. There are certain other forumers who have the -exact- same situation.
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Postby Tanner » 2008.12.13 (14:47)

Arranged long-distance relationship? What a ridiculous concept.
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Postby SlappyMcGee » 2008.12.13 (14:53)

rennaT wrote:Arranged long-distance relationship? What a ridiculous concept.
Arranged long-distance relationship with girls from Ohio, even.
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Postby ninja143 » 2008.12.21 (02:26)

I can relate to this some what, a good friend of mine, his girlfriend was in New York, and he was also in Ohio, so they called each other twice a day ( in the morning and evening) plus texted each other constently. they also had AIM, Webcams, and emailing back and forth. i know its hard to have that kind of thing happen but any chance you can go and visit her. take a weekend and go see her. but call her twice a day, email, text, anything you can do. and just keep faith that you will see her. its not forever and know this absence makes the heart grow fonder, i know that its hard to keep faith but you need to.


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Postby epigone » 2008.12.21 (06:42)

Sounds like a shotgun wedding to me.

Take it from me, someone in a long distance relationship (but who is significantly older than 16 so maybe it's not worth hearing) the best thing you can do is stay in each others lives. It's good you call daily. Little things like hearing each others voice can become very special. Send her a letter every once in a while (not an email, a real letter). Those can be very special. And finally, try to visit with her when you can. Even if you meet somewhere in the middle, it's good to see each other as often as possible.
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Postby blue_tetris » 2008.12.21 (07:32)

The best part about a long-distance relationship is that you only have to talk to each other when you need something. Mostly sex, and only when the other says she's driving up to your place.
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Postby T3chno » 2008.12.21 (07:39)

you should listen to blue_tetris, he's been thru this
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Postby Kablizzy » 2008.12.21 (08:40)

Pfft. We've all been through this. And suffice to say, we're all single.
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Postby blue_tetris » 2008.12.21 (09:52)

Kablizzy wrote:Pfft. We've all been through this. And suffice to say, we're all single.
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Postby blackson » 2008.12.22 (02:59)

Tsukatu wrote: Image
Shouldn't that be a ray? Or rather, a segment?
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Postby t̷s͢uk̕a͡t͜ư » 2008.12.22 (03:05)

Blackson wrote:Shouldn't that be a ray? Or rather, a segment?
Sounds like someone's awful proud to have just learned some high-falutin' terms from his 7th grade math class.
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Postby sheganican » 2008.12.22 (03:08)

Blackson wrote:Shouldn't that be a ray? Or rather, a segment?
well actually blackson, a ray is a straight, unending line starting at one point on a plane and a line segment consists of two points on a plane connected by a line.

what you have there blackson is, get ready for this, a line


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Postby AF » 2008.12.24 (21:36)

Man, he clearly forced her into it. No doubt about it.
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Postby blue_tetris » 2008.12.25 (00:45)

AFling wrote:Man, he clearly forced her into it. No doubt about it.
You know what they say about Ohio. It's round on both ends. Hm? Hmmmm? Also, it's filled with rapists.
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Postby Maligus » 2009.01.06 (16:58)

blue_tetris wrote:
AFling wrote:Man, he clearly forced her into it. No doubt about it.
You know what they say about Ohio. It's round on both ends. Hm? Hmmmm? Also, it's filled with rapists.
lmfao...you guys are somethin else lol
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